HAPPINESS
Happiness
differs from age to age, person to person and from opportunity to opportunity.
Therefore,
this means that what makes a child or a youth happy may not make an elderly
person or an adult happy.
In
the same way people can be happy depending on the opportunities available to
them and this also differs from the chances that they have.
Happiness
is also based on the personality or the character of an individual.
Happiness in the Present Situation
The
following are the general ideas and views people think about as sources of
happiness.
1.
Many people when they are in a good relationship with God they share their spiritual
life with God through religious activities like praying, fasting, praise and
worship because God is the source of everything today.
2.
Being in good marriage makes some people happy especially where there's love,
faithfulness and understanding others. In such case their emotion feelings are
well' catered for.
3.
Giving birth in a marriage relationship makes people happy. Children are a
blessing from God and it shows that there's a continuity of the lives of
parents.
4.
Attaining and attending good formal education are sources of happiness of
people. Educational qualifications like diploma, degree and masters-among
others make people happy as they lead to employment and better-living standards
5.
To most people, having material wealth/like land, houses and huge sums of money
are sources of happiness. A part from giving them prestige, it makes their
lives easier as they are in a better condition to support themselves and
others.
6.
Employment especially in popular jobs with attractive income like managers,
lawyers and accountancy make some people happy. The incomes they get from their
jobs help them to solve their immediate needs and even invest.
7.
To some people, happiness is all about being popular in the community. The
musicians and footballers find joy in pulling huge crowd after them. Because of
their popularity they feel great and respected and this gives them joy.
8
.Enjoying leisure activities like singing, touring, listening to music brings joy
to almost everyone. Such activities refresh their minds and promote good
inter-personal relationship among others.
9.
Being in good health is a source of joy. It is an avenue through which a person
can live longer. Besides, it makes it possible for the individuals to engage in
productive activities in order to better their lives.
10.
Coming out victorious in stiff competitions makes people happy. For example,
winning a highly contested election or a difficult game makes the individuals
to feel loved.
11.
Political stability or good governance is a source of joy to many people. It
ensures that there is peace and harmony among the people.
12.
Observing culture is a source of joy among some people. It helps to give them
identity as a particular group of people.
13.
Having a good relationship with the community members makes the people happy.
The people feel secured because of this.
14.
Attaining economic development is an aspect of happiness today. Economic
development such as industrial growth improved education, health and roads help
to ease life in the community through offering employment and income.
Unhappiness in the present situation
Unhappiness
is the feeling or expression of sorrow, sadness, disappointment or misery by a
person or a group of individuals.
Unhappiness
can be expressed by being gloomy, fighting, crying, jeering, quarrelling.
Therefore
unhappiness in the present situation is associated with the following; ,
1.
Unemployment despite one's qualifications. This makes it difficult for a person
to earn a living especially after spending a lot to attain the qualification.
2.
Death of a family member or a friend causes sadness brought about by physical
separation and the loss of the, contributions of the departed.
3.
Marital unfaithfulness especially adultery causes sorrow. It shows lack of
commitment in one's relationship. It is
an act of betrayal.
4.
Domestic violence makes people unhappy. It has always led to bodily injuries
and death among others.
5.
Political instability is the cause of unhappiness. It is always associated with
loss of lives, destruction of property and the feeling of insecurity.
6.
People are unhappy because of discrimination basing on sex, tribe, religion and
status among others. This becomes a source of insecurity and makes people to
feel unwanted and useless in the society.
7.
Barrenness or infertility in marriage causes of unhappiness in many families.
This is especially if one partner desires to have
8.
Poverty causes unhappiness today. The poor people may fail to provide basic
needs for themselves and this leads to misery.
9.
Exploitation of workers makes so many people unhappy. In such work places there
is low payment, delay payment and over working among others.
8.
Cultural rigidity causes unhappiness to many people. Some cultures deny the
individuals their freedom and lead to suffering in different forms like the
circumcision of female among the Sebei people.
9.
Divorce causes unhappiness. It comes with the feeling of being rejected thereby
causing shame and discomfort.
10.
Mob justice causes sadness. It publically humiliates the suspected criminal
including his or her family members. This means that such people become a
laughing stock in public hence leading to unhappiness.
12.
The existing level of poverty in Uganda today is a major factor causing
unhappiness. It renders an individual helpless to acquire with basic needs such
food, education, medical care, clothing and others.
12.
Corruption is also causing unhappiness today. This is a practice where some
civil servants misuse facilities meant to benefit the public for their own
gains. This is selfishness and greediness that cause suffering to others.
13.
Unwanted pregnancies are responsible for unhappiness today. The girl or the
woman and the man may not be ready to bear a child for one reason or another.
It is even made worse on the side of woman who may not know the man responsible
for the pregnancy or when the man denies the responsibility.
14.
Diseases including AIDS, Malaria, cholera and others today are causing
unhappiness. This is as a result of continuous body weaknesses that render an
individual helpless to do anything.
Happiness in African Traditional Society
In
African traditional society, there were commonly accepted values that guided
people's lives. Therefore, everybody knew and understood what it meant to be
happy. The main ideas of about happiness include the following.
1.
According to the traditional Africans, happiness meant a state of being
contented with what one had or what one was.
2.
Happiness in traditional Africa was being in harmony or in a good relationship
with the spirits (gods), deceased ancestors, neighbors, and tribes. It was
believed that one would receive blessings through this kind of relationship.
3.
Happiness in traditional Africa laid in having good harvest and plenty of food.
This was an insurance against famine within the homestead.
4.
Happiness in traditional Africa was being in possession of material wealth such
as land, cattle, sheep, goat and others. People with such materials were
highly. respected in the community.
5.
Happiness in traditional Africa meant being faithful to the customs or the
traditions of the society. Such traditions created the sense of belonging.
6.
Being elderly and wise was considered happiness in traditional African society.
The wise elders held status in the community because of using their wisdom to
guide other members. They were therefore considered the light of the society
and given much respect.
7.
Happiness in traditional Africa was understood as having power and prestige.
Leaders such as kings, chiefs, clan leaders and others were given much respect
and were therefore happy.
8.
Happiness in traditional Africa was
linked to having many children. Children were considered God's blessing to the
marriages, source of labour and insurance against old age among others. People
with children were therefore happy basing on this ground.
9.
In traditional Africa, happiness meant being married. Marriage was a compulsory
aspect of social life. Being married therefore meant being loyal to the
existing culture.
10.
In traditional Africa happiness also meant being faithful to one's role in the
society. This was because fulfilling ones' duties like being a mother, a
father, and a son etc. created unity and the sense of belonging among the
members.
11.
Being healthy was considered happiness in traditional Africa. This was an
indication that one was in good terms with the ancestral spirits. It also meant
that one could live for a longer period.
12. Marrying many wives was a source of happiness
for men in traditional Africa. Such men were respected because of the
responsibility they had like feeding the many wives and their children. The
respect given to such men brought them joy.
13.
Happiness in traditional Africa was understood as sharing all the resources
within the community like land. This explains why the poor and disabled were
not considered failures in life. This prevented selfishness and eliminated
suffering among the people hence creating
14. Having talents was considered a source of
happiness. Such talents like being a medicine man or woman diviners and potters
among others served the needs of others in various ways created happiness.
15.
In traditional Africa, happiness was being prosperous but not at the expense of
others. The prosperity of an individual was for the benefits of all members in
the community.
Revision Questions:
1. Explain the traditional African
understanding of happiness
2. What was it meant to be happy in African
Traditional Society?
3. Explain the main ideas that brought about happiness
in the African past
Occasions of happiness in traditional
Africa
They
were particular moments when people in African tradition could come together
and express the joy. Such moments were characterized by celebrations or
feasting. Slaughtering of animals and birds, drinking, singing and dancing
formed part of the occasions. These events included the following
1.
Childbirth was an important social event that the traditional Africans
celebrated together. Goats and chicken were slaughtered to welcome the new
member of the family.
2.
Initiation ceremonies such as circumcision and puberty rites were also
occasions of happiness in traditional Africa. In such ceremonies, the Africans
celebrated one's passage from one stage of life to another like a boy becoming
an adult man.
3.
The traditional Africans celebrated marriage or introduction ceremonies.
Animals and birds such as cows, goats and chicken respectively were slaughtered
accompanied with drinking beer, singing and dancing. This was done in bidding
fare well to the outgoing member of the family and to recognize the newly acquired
status of the two partners.
4.
The traditional Africans also celebrated the beginning of a good harvest
season. They would offer sacrifices as way of appreciating God for the
blessings in the form of good harvest. This called for a celebration because it
guaranteed security against famine.
5.
Victories in wars were celebrated in traditional Africa. Victory in wars meant
security against loss of lives, property and foreign domination by other
tribes.
6.
In some societies, the enthronement of a king was an occasion that brought joy
among the traditional Africans. The enthronement was associated with a series
of rituals and feastings. This was because it a fulfillment of their cultural
set up.
7.
House warming was also an occasion of happiness in traditional Africa. This was
a day when the traditional Africans could celebrate the entrance into a new
house. It was associated with eating, singing and dancing.
8.
Official traditional welcome of twins was an occasion of happiness. The coming
of twins in some African understanding signified misfortune would happen in the
near future. Because of this, they used to sacrifice and feast as way of trying
to cleanse or wash away the would be misfortune.
9.
Beer parties were also an occasion of happiness in traditional Africa. This was
usually organized after a particular task or work had been completed. In such a
party, people would eat, drink, sing and dance.
10.
Acquiring land was another occasion of happiness in traditional Africa. This
was because land was the most valuable resource in the community's life.
11.
Successful hunting expedition contributed to happiness among the traditional
Africans. This was because they believed that the ancestral spirits blessed the
successful hunting.
12.
Children naming called for celebration among the traditional Africans. Some
names were given basing on the circumstances surrounding the birth. Such names
helped the Africans to identify themselves and describe the condition they are
living.
13.
Some African people were happy on seeing a new moon appearing. For example,
among the Khoi-Khoi of South Africa; the appearance of a new moon showed the
presence of their God and-therefore they were happy.
Revision Question
1. On
what occasion were the people of African Traditional society happy?
2.
Explain tile particular moments in African tradition where the people expressed
joy.
Causes of unhappiness in traditional
Africa
1.
Having a bad relationship with the ancestral spirits caused unhappiness. They
believed that this could result into curses.
2.
Having poor harvests caused unhappiness in traditional Africa. This was because
of the expected famine that would befall the population.
3.
Lacking material possessions such as land, cattle and goats among others caused
unhappiness in traditional Africa. This was a sign of poverty and suffering.
4.
Unhappiness in African Traditional society was caused by lack of faithfulness
or failure to follow the customs or the traditions. In such a case, other
members of the community isolated such individuals.
5.
Loosing wars also resulted into unhappiness in traditional Africa. This was
because of its consequences such as loss of lives, foreign domination and loss
of property.
6.
Failure to produce children in a marriage caused unhappiness in traditional
Africa. This was because of the belief that the ancestral spirits could have
cursed the couple.
7.
Failure to get married brought unhappiness to traditional Africans. Single life
was never accepted and was considered as going against-the
culture-where-marriage was compulsory. The unmarried people were considered
social misfits and were always isolated.
8.
Both human beings and even animals caused unhappiness in traditional Africa.
This was because death was taken to be unusual, a curse and a misfortune.
9.
Being sickly caused unhappiness in traditional Africa. Sick people were
believed to be on bad terms with the ancestral spirits.
10.
Failure to show commitment to one's social roles like being a father, a mother
and others caused unhappiness in traditional Africa. This was a disgrace' in
the life of the community.
11.
Anti-social behavior such as witchcraft, theft and murder also caused unhappiness
in Traditional Africa. This was a sign of one's disloyalty in serving the needs
of the community.
Happiness in Church History
1.
Happiness in the
early history of the church came from the belief in the gospel Jesus Christ had
started. People found joy in being Christians because it was a way of serving
others and obtaining salvation.
2.
The resurrection of
Jesus Christ was a source of happiness to Christians. The Christians saw this
resurrection as their source of strength and their own resurrection (1
Corinthians 15).
3.
Christians also
obtained happiness when being persecuted for the sake of the gospel. They felt
happy when they suffered because of their religion and some even accepted to be
martyred following the example of Jesus. (2 Corinthian 11 :24 - 27, Romans 8:9
- 20).
4.
At a later history,
Christians found happiness by believing in renunciation. The monks and the Nuns
who lived in North Africa initiated this and argued that true happiness could
only be achieved by doing without the pleasures of the world such as eating
food, sexual intercourse and others.
5.
Christians found
happiness through praying constantly. This was a direct way of communicating
with God. In their prayers they thanked and requested God for the provision of
their daily needs.
6.
Some Christians
achieved happiness by helping the needy such as the poor, widow, disabled and
others. They believed that they were doing it for Christ himself who also did
the same during his ministry. (Mathew 25:45).
7.
The early Christians
found joy through performing miracles. Such miracles like healing the sick,
lame and others brought glory to God's name and His kingdom.
8.
Carrying out water
baptism brought happiness among the Christians. This signified the growing
number of God's children and the good preaching being carried out.
9.
Some Christians,
especially the monks and the nuns, found joy in providing educational services.
They built schools and health centers to deliver God's people from their
various suffering like diseases and illiteracy.
10. The Monks and the Nuns found joy through engaging in
productive work such as agriculture. They cultivated crops and distributed the
output to the needy.
11. Easy spread of the gospel brought joy to Christians. This
meant that the kingdom of God was growing and a sign salvation.
12. The Christians found joy while celebrating important
religious days such as the Pentecost, Easter and others. Such days reminded
them about particular events in the growth of Christian faith.
13. Building church structures also brought joy to the
Christians. This was because it signified the growing number of God's children.
14. Fasting made some Christians happy. It was a way through
which they could dedicate themselves and meditate on God's provision for them.
They denied themselves food, drink and even sexual intercourse for a given
period of time.
15. Some Christians found joy by writing inspiring letters to
others. This was a way of sharing their Christian faith. St. Paul wrote so many
epistles to various Christian communities like Corinth, Galatia, Rome and
others.
Happiness inspite of
suffering
Some
Christians in the history of the church remained happy when they were
suffering. Such personalities and group of people included;
St. Ignatius of Antioch
( Bishop, Matyr and Church Father)
•
He was the Christian
slave but he did his slavery work with a lot of joy because he was a believer
in Christ.
•
He found more joy
when he was ordained as a Bishop of Antioch in Syria.
•
He remained happy
when he was imprisoned for his belief in the gospel of Christ.
•
Ignatius was always
joyful when writing thanks giving letters to the Christians who were visiting
him while he was in prison.
•
He was joyful when
being murdered by a gang of brutal soldiers for the sake of believing in Christ.
•
He used to sing songs
of praises while he was in his slavery conditions.
•
He continued the
preaching of the good news of salvation at the climax of his suffering.
•
He endured a lot, of
suffering for Christ with a lot of joy. He knew that he would be rewarded in
the heavenly kingdom.
•
Ignatius was happy
when attained freedom from spiritual slavery. (Slavery of sin through repentance)
•
He continued praying
for the unity of the church while he was in deep suffering.
•
He was unfortunately
handed over to the wild beasts to eat him as punishment by the church enemies.
Bishop Cyprian
He
was a bishop of Carthage in North Africa. He did experience suffering in his life but found
happiness in the following ways.
He
was happy when he got converted to Christianity because this was the beginning
of understanding the gospel truth that later inspired him to become a bishop.
He
was a man filled with happiness on the day of his baptism. The knowledge that
he had joined the family of God brought joy to him.
He
found joy through repentance which had him right with God.
He
preached the good news of salvation to many of his followers with a lot of joy.
Reading
the scriptures gave him a lot of joy for it was important in keeping him strong
in his faith.
Having
numerous and believers made him so happy. He had thought that was something
impossible because of his sinful background.
He
was happy when he felt that the Holy Spirit had filled him up. This gave him
courage to do his work even in times of difficulties.
St. Augustine of Hippo
Augustine
praised God at a time he lost his beloved mother. He therefore thanked God for
having taken his mothers' life.
He
was joyful because of his belief in the resurrection of Jesus Christ.
They
enjoyed living in harsh conditions in the desert but continued to be happy
because they were living in the life of Christ.
They
lived in isolation as they looked for true happiness. This made them to appear
to be anti-social.
By
renunciation they gave up on all the pleasures of the world including smiling,
having sexual intercourse and sometimes doing without food.
They
chose to be poor and yet they remained happy in that kind of life.
They
enjoyed working on their own despite the difficult agricultural work in their
gardens.
They
joyfully provided for the needy like widows and orphans even when they were
also poor.
Uganda Martyrs
They
were happy when they were insulted by the non- believers because of following
the gospel of Jesus Christ.
They
praised God when they were faced with persecution from their own people.
They
accepted to be put to death when happiness and joy because they believed they
would come back to life like their savior Jesus Christ.
They
lived self-denial life and continued to be happy. They stayed without food and
no proper source of water.
They
joyfully accepted to be disowned by their own people because of their new
faith. They disobeyed the orders of the king because they believed in the good
news of salvation.
Even
when they were threatened to death, the martyrs continued praising and
worshipping God.
Missionaries in Africa
They
endured the harsh conditions in Africa but continued to be happy when spreading
the good news of salvation
Some
of the missionaries died in the process of their work but their colleagues
continued doing the work joyfully.
The
early Christians continued to be happy despite their being persecuted for
believing in Jesus Christ.
They
suffered from poverty and continued to be happy because Jesus had lived in the
same way.
They
moved long distances in their missionary journeys but with a lot of joy.
The
Christians continued praising God with goodness even at the time they saw their
friends killed.
They
were always threatened by the political authority but they continued with their
work. They were happy to identify themselves with and helping the needy
including the widows and orphans.
Unhappiness in church history
Just
like any other normal human beings, Christians experienced sadness in their
lives. This was caused by the various sufferings they under went through. This
came about as Christians tried to look for true happiness as seen below.
1. The suffering and the eventual death of Jesus
Christ caused unhappiness among Christians. The Christians lacked knowledge on
Jesus' coming and were grieved to see him suffering and dying
2.
The persecution of Christians in various communities also brought sadness in
their faith. The disciples in particular suffered persecution with some even
being killed like Stephan. This caused fear, which resulted into unhappiness.
3. Spiritual rivalry especially among the
apostles brought sorrows in the Christian faith. Some apostles spoke in
tongues, while others performed miracles. This caused disunity, which resulted
into unhappiness.
4. The pre-destination doctrine brought by John
Calvin of Switzerland caused unhappiness in church history. Calvin argued that
God had already determined the destiny of all human beings before birth. He
stressed that one could either to go into heaven or hell and that nothing human
could be done to change the arrangement. This caused panic among Christians,
which resulted into unhappiness.
5.
The sale of indulgence that became a business in the church was responsible for
man's unhappiness, The church leaders encouraged Christians to give gifts
especially money to the church so that their sins were forgiven before being
granted salvation, This caused unhappiness to the poor who could not afford pay
because they knew that they would go to hell after their death.
6.
Unhappiness in church history came as a result of slavery and slave trade. Such
victims were over worked and yet less attention was paid to their welfare. This
limited their freedom and caused a lot of pain to them that eventually resulted
in unhappiness.
7.
Christians experienced unhappiness due to poverty. Besides failing to support
themselves, the Christians had the duty of providing basic needs to the poor,
orphans and the widows with food and shelter. This even made preaching the good
news difficult.
8.
Christians experienced sadness due to the long unpleasant missionary journey
they engaged in. They faced opposition, harsh climate and inadequate
facilities. This made life more difficult for the Christians to bear.
9.
Oppression of Christian minority also caused sadness. In the Roman Empire more
especially during the reign of Emperor Nero, the Christian minorities were
blamed for any small mistakes. For example, the Christians were at one time
persecuted as having burnt the city yet they were innocent.
10.
The missionaries who came to Africa used a threatening method of preaching the
good news. This caused discomfort and frightened the Africans because of the
preaching that whoever had not heard the gospel would go to hell.
11.
The restrictive nature of Christianity was responsible for the unhappiness
among Christians. Christianity came to be viewed as a religion full of
"don't" that limited the freedom of the people.
12.
Unhappiness in church history was caused by the renunciation practiced by the
Monks and the Hermits in North Africa. They lived and encouraged their
followers to live a self-denial life by doing without the pleasures of the
world such as drinking, dancing and sexual intercourse. This was based on the
belief that it could give them more time to enjoy friendship with God. This
instead caused suffering among the people, which resulted into unhappiness.
13.
Christians in church history experienced unhappiness during the
inter-denominational conflicts. This was especially between the Catholics and
the Protestants. The Catholics labeled the Protestants as rebels and that they
would go to hell. This resulted into confrontation with the effects being
disastrous.
14.
Unhappiness in church history came as a result of the martyrdom of Christians.
In Uganda, the burning of the first Christian coverts in 1886 caused fear and
panic to other Christians who were still alive. This made them unhappy.
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